when money is on the table, literally, and the tension grows, take a deep breath, remember that you are on the same team and look beyond the money on the table.  

in a thousand ways, we have failed our vows and failed one another, I have never known a more relentless love & unending grace on this earth than I have in marriage.  

The words we wrote to one another 5 years ago are our life’s work because when we said ‘I do’ we said ‘I will.’